Bob Vylan were dreamers – and they still are. Perhaps it was their rebellious, stubborn nature that gave them the drive to fulfil their ambitions, instead of getting a “real job”, as encouraged by friends and family from a young age. But, as Bobby now realises, this was borne out of a place of fear, not malice or a lack of belief in his ability.
“I understand now that people’s concerns and disbelief, especially my parents’, were rooted in the fact they’re working-class. We don’t have that privilege of living an ‘artist’s life’ – you finish school, you go to college and get a job. There’s a route you take, and being an artist is not a route that you take to keep your head above water. There is a worry. ‘My son, I love you, do not condemn yourself to a life of poverty by trying to be an artist.’ But as I got older, I realised, of course, why wouldn’t they be worried? He’s gonna be poor, and I cannot afford to keep him afloat.”
Imparting this truth and self-belief upon the youth of today is of paramount importance to them, explains Bobbie, articulating this balanced approach that has come with maturity. “I guess people do have a duty to tell kids that maybe you should have something [else]. But at the same time, if you dissuade people from trying to chase those things, you don’t have any artists, athletes or anything. Before you tell them that they’re gonna fail, just let them try.”
Whatever Bobby’s daughter wishes to pursue, be it dancing, cooking or something else, she has his full support – as long as she has the work ethic to match. “My daughter’s in a far better position than I was at her age. It’s night and day. This kid does not know half of what I went through, and she never will, because that’s the job that me and her mother have done. So maybe she will be able to live rent-free, maybe, and chase what she wants to do. I would happily give that, as long as she’s serious about it.”